Friendsgiving has become a beloved tradition, with nearly half of Americans planning to attend at least one Friendsgiving event. It’s a time to celebrate gratitude with friends, making the focus on creating a warm, joyful, and welcoming atmosphere for your guests. After hosting several Friendsgivings myself, I've gathered some tried-and-true tips to help you plan an easy, stress-free, and memorable experience. Here's a step-by-step guide to ensure you’re fully prepared.
Why Friendsgiving?
The beauty of Friendsgiving lies in the relaxed vibe—it’s about spending quality time with the people who matter most. Whether it's your chosen family or a group of close friends, the goal is to make them feel comfortable, happy, and well taken care of.
Planning Timeline:
30 Days Before
Set the Date and Time: Pick a date that works for the majority of your guests.
Create Your Guest List: Aim to invite around 15 friends to ensure a final group of 12, ideal for an intimate gathering.
Inspire Your Decor: Browse our Thanksgiving board on Pinterest (@chefpostpins) to get ideas for a festive theme.
Decide on a Theme: Choose a look and feel that reflects your style, whether it's rustic, chic, cozy or neutral.
Send Invitations: Send invites at least three weeks before the event.
Book Your Chef: Reserve your chef at Chefpost and take advantage of the "Pay Later" option for stress-free planning.
2 Weeks Before
Order Tablescape Accents: Get candles, vases, and table decor from places like HomeGoods, Amazon, or Anthropologie. For rentals, contact the Chefpost Experience Team to help coordinate.
Plan a Signature Drink: Decide on a unique cocktail to serve at the event.




1 Week Before
Confirm Final Headcount: Double-check RSVPs to finalize your numbers with the chef if you've booked through Chefpost.
Book a Server or Bartender: Make arrangements if you want extra help.
Plan Your Look: Choose your outfit and any necessary beauty appointments.
1-3 Days Before
Buy Flowers: Arrange fresh blooms in vases to add a touch of elegance to your table.
Set Up the Tablescape: Decorate the table with your chosen accents and candles.
Prepare a Playlist: Curate a list of tunes to set the mood.
Choose Conversation Games: Pick fun activities, like sharing what you're grateful for.
Day Of: Relax and Enjoy!
Add your personal touch, let your personality shine through, and most importantly, enjoy this special time with your friends. Need an extra hand in the kitchen? Book a chef with Chefpost for an unforgettable culinary experience. Explore our Chef’s Thanksgiving options here. Book, relax, and enjoy!
Friendsgiving is all about having fun and creating memories. With these tips, you’ll be set for a seamless celebration. Cheers to friends, gratitude, and a delicious meal!
Feel free to share your Friendsgiving ideas or questions in the comments below! 🥂


